One of the interesting part from the book that I need to admit as true, is the analogy that man is like a rubber band. You know..they have some sort of elasticity which enable them to stretch from time to time and back to the normal position when they are ready.
So according to the author, after sometime in a relationship man will suddenly build the need to set some distance from the spouse and therefore they need to stretch out...just like rubber band. This is their common cycle which most female didn't aware and couldn't accept it. For female, you only build a distance when something is wrong somewhere. And when something is wrong...something need to be done to improve it. The best way to deal with this weird cycle of the mars creature is actually let them be and don't go chase after them for the sake of keeping the distance close (which is the common reaction of most Venusian)
By doing so, woman is literally disturbs the cycle and mess with the recovering phase. So the man would keep pushing for more and more distance or they might stay around, but reacted very cold, aggressive, temper and unrest. On the other hand, by aware of this man's natural cycle, woman will find the need to entrust the man some time to be alone and there's where he actually realizes that he needs her love, reduces the elasticity and comes back to the normal position. Bear in your mind that this is a recurring phenomenon and u just need to sit back, relax, chill and do nothing until he's okay everytime it happens....
However in my case, to calm and convince myself that everything is alright is always the hardest part. -_-'
Stresssss.......Is there any man out there live his life free from this cycle?
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